CAUSE AND EFFECTIVE ESSAY

Many people, like my parents, intend to keep their children on track by influencing them to be great people. They show them the right path through social standards, moral authority and high educational quality. Some children don’t understand why they nag so much until they realize it throughout their own experiences, even though their parents probably have already used their own as examples to prevent them from falling into the same path. Every parent, good or bad, have a certain influence in their child which eventually effects them; even my own have had a high outcome on me in many ways.

My parents, like a grand majority, have always made sure I was spending time around the right people; especially my social life in school. They always mention the quote that “people see you like the ones you pass around with”, and I never took that in consideration because I know who I am and that’s all that really counts. My parents disliked deeply two friends of mine who were always criticizing me and calling me foul names and I ignored them because I thought they were just misjudging them. As a result, people started seeing me differently; they now started thinking I was like them and classified me as an indecent young girl, especially my guy friends.  Consequently, I learned my parents had all reason to think that way after I opened my eyes; they showed me to choose wisely my friends and to be myself and forget about those that think less of me, also to not let any criteria get into my head because I’m worth more than people’s opinions.

Respecting and the way people show respect has always been a major factor my parents have had an effect towards me. Various parents, towards girls, are very strict on how boys treat them. In response to what my parents have showed me about values I dealt with a situation in school with a boy who couldn’t control his hands. That boy, who played to be a friend, out of nowhere just smacks hard my behind and expects me to let it be or like it so, to show him I’m not anybody to fool around with like that I smacked him hard across the face various times. My parent’s guidance helped me overcome that situation and I couldn’t have thought it twice, I don’t think anybody would like random people to invade their personal zones. Also, this helped me gain respect from others and helped them notice that if they underestimate my value the situation can result in an aggressive one.

Getting excellent grades and learning how to do the best of me in my classes has always been a key factor for my parents. They were very strict in how I overcame my primary studies. Their guidance gave significance and importance towards my achievements in school, since they always presented me like a bright child. Their direction presented me that whatever I do in life I must do it with love and dedication. Even though I was confused when younger and didn’t understand why I had to have good grades and thought my parents were too pushy, especially when all I wanted to do was play around, I brought it to thought eventually and I noticed that I couldn’t of had a better path. As a result of my parents persuasion I finally came to realize that a good education leads you towards a better life and it pushes your knowledge towards diverse routes.

My parents found the way to fulfill me with strength and knowledge and lead me the way they found best suitable for me, leaving me the right to choose my way without falling off the tracks. There persuasion and dedication for teaching me right and wrong brought a positive effect on me. Just like many parents they have their own criteria on how to influence their children on how to show them the way most appropriate. Mine showed me many factors but I would say the principle ones that have had grad impact on me are social standards, moral authority and high educational quality.